Men, if you love web technology and find that it’s easy for you to learn and use, you have a big opportunity to make an enormous impact in the world, and you can start with the woman you’re in a relationship with.
If you’re not in an intimate relationship with one, there are thousands of women you can still help. And who knows, this might be the perfect way for you to meet and fall in love with the woman of your dreams.
The opportunity before you is to be a bad ass, superhero tech husband who supports his wife so she can shine brightly in the world.
Right now there is a large, beautiful wave of women entrepreneurs who are creating amazing, life-changing online businesses to bring their gifts to the world.
The technology involved in assembling a complete software system to run an online business that sells information products or services can be quite complex and difficult to learn on your own.
It’s often the case that the people who create the software are not very good at explaining how to use it, but you can use your abilities to do the hard grunt work of figuring out the best, easiest way to use the apps, and then teach it to your wife or girlfriend.
If she doesn’t want to do much of the actual work herself, do it for her. Get it done. Flex your tech mind. Dazzle her with the grace and ease with which you accomplish seemingly mind-numbing tech feats.
If possible don’t do everything for her. Empower her with knowledge. She will probably get very excited and joyous when she can accomplish something technical that was previously beyond her abilities. The reward of seeing her joy of accomplishment is priceless.
If you have some free time outside of your regular work, you could be your woman’s tech husband, setting up and managing her web software systems, and teaching her how to use them to the degree that she’s interested.
If you have a lot of free time, you could step up and be her superhero: the tech wizard who makes her whole online business possible.
Either way, this is another way to connect with and support the woman you love. Trust me, your relationship will grow. The love between you will deepen. You will get more sex…I’m not kidding.
A skilled tech husband at work on complicated things for his woman’s business has a sexyness rating that rivals you wearing a black leather jacket while riding a vintage motorcycle. Peer reviewed studies have confirmed this.
And if you do things right, you’ll both be making great money, which can open up time in your lives to do other things you love.
Sure, you can continue to buy her flowers, chocoloate, jewlery, massages, and facials. Those are all great ways to express your love.
But make her a new, stunning website with an integrated ecommerce, email marketing, and affiliate tracking system that sells access to a membership area where there are streaming videos, live webcasts, audio recordings, articles, downloadable pdfs and mp3s, and a discussion forum…and it will be a gift she will never forget.
If you want to go the extra mile, study the crap out of internet marketing, information marketing, content marketing, blogging, social media strategies, product launches, and video creation so that you can be the go-to guy in her world for marketing strategy discussions.
Study with Jeff Walker, Andy Jenkins, Brendon Burchard, Eben Pagan, and the Copyblogger team. Learn their stuff inside and out.
You’ve got to love this stuff to make it work. If you’re passionate about it, dive in and learn all you can.
What you’d be doing is getting on her team and helping her succeed at her dream. And oh, does she have a dream. It’s full of colors and textures and smells…she can vividly feel what it will be like when it’s realized.
Her business will get her there, to the place where that dream becomes her day-to-day life. You’re probably already in that dream reality of hers anyway, so why not step up and help make it happen?
Give your help freely. Expect nothing in return except the smile on her face, and the satisfaction in her heart. What you actually end up recieving will be beyond your imagination, so don’t bother imagining it.
This is about love. It’s about people in relationships using their natural talents in the appropriate environment to build something together; something that will make a dent in the universe; something that will help people who are affected by what your woman is bringing into the world.
And who knows, you may find yourself building your own kick-ass online business one day, or providing your new quiver of tech skills to other people for a handsome fee.
Man up, tech husbands. The time is now. Help your woman. Help yourself.